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Yo wazzups,

So I was thinking just now in the car while I'm driving. 

What is the most important thing in your life?

What are the things that matters most if you lose them? 

Who you can't afford to lose?

Seriously. Take your time, probably grab the pillow and make some brainstorming when you are on the bed. Think of what have you been doing your whole life. Think of the people that revolves around you, be it your families, your BEST friends, your friends, colleagues, lecturers and teachers and if you want, your ex too-lah ok. 

Which of them are the one you spend your time with most and probably WILL too in the future? They are the one that is important to you. Period. 

Some people take their friends for granted. Don't worry, it is quite normal actually. We all do some things for granted. e.g. the toilet roll. (inb4 you wash your asshole, k) So what most of them did not do was appreciate them. Until they lost one part of their life (be it family member or close friend). Be reminded that we are all human, and we don't live forever. We'll die. That is part of life and also the order of nature. We live, grow and die. 

 So it wouldn't take too much of a time to say, maybe, start paying attention to your surroundings?

Those who are close with me and hang out with me often knows what kind of friend I am. In my own way of interpreting myself, I am really outgoing and lively in my own group. I like to crack stupid and lame jokes (JAMES HAHAHHAHAHAHHAA) to my friends just so they make the -_- look to me. Well, some of the jokes were laughable but rarely-lah. To me, whether you are a big lame joker or a stupid laughing stock, what you do directly flow inside of your friend's mind. They may remember you for who you are with them, but not who you really are, unless you are really who you are with them. 

But with new strangers, I am totally aw-ke-ward. But that's alright, improving on that...

As I was saying, blood bond and friendship are the one that can bring you throughout your life and the best thing is, IT IS FREE. Walao, Malaysians heard free ah all sure queue kao kao for it (or if its a minion). But seriously, don't just "live through your days"  but rather "live meaningfully each day". Don't be a slave of life. 

For a "chao kuey teow" to manifest its tastiness and nice fragrant, you will need the basic materials. For a skyscraper to stand firmly, it needs a good foundation. For a life to be beautiful, you will need two ships. 


dude, friendship and relationship-lah. not those ships that sail in sea. HAHA- TEEHEE.

Chaooo

Death

Just gonna be a little quick insight from me. 



What do you think about death? 

What do you think about dying young?

What do you think about dying young with wealth?


I have been thinking rather a lot recently about this. It's not that I want to commit suicide or something, but death is just a painful truth and life is a beautiful lie. Nothing is permanent in this world except change. Everything changes and you can do nothing to stop it. It is the part of life. 

Most people take death as a negative result, the termination of life. I personally think that if we looked at the bright/positive side, death isn't that bad after all. Death can stop the person from suffering if he is having a chronic disease. Death can be a gift from God to join him (not being a  Christian here, just superstitious). Death could be the termination of all the lies we have lived in for all the year we are alive. 

At some point of our lives, we will die. It isn't something that you can change. Not if you found the Elixir of Life. In every events of our lives we should take things positively and optimistically. Take failures as experiences and embrace your superiority. I constantly remind myself to accept other's critics (although I still struggle with this issue) and correct them. Take what is bad and turn it into good, throw it away if you can't. 

Remember that everything in life is temporary. So all your electrical gadgets, money, property and cars will disappear one day. What remains in life is family, friendships and memories. Don't lose yourself with apparel of wealth. You can't bring it into the coffin. The only thing you can bring into the coffin is your body and the cloth you are wearing. So please, life is too short. Go out there and build memories with your family and friends. In the end, they are the ones that will walk you through the funeral ceremony. 

Food for thought. Cheers fella.